From mboxrd@z Thu Jan 1 00:00:00 1970 Message-Id: <200106141624.SAA24297@boris.cd.chalmers.se> To: 9fans@cse.psu.edu Cc: lac@cd.chalmers.se Subject: Re: [9fans] passionate about research or about teaching In-reply-to: Your message of "Thu, 14 Jun 2001 15:48:53 GMT." <3B28D6E7.1C955BEE@null.net> From: Laura Creighton Date: Thu, 14 Jun 2001 18:24:16 +0200 Topicbox-Message-UUID: b8c334dc-eac9-11e9-9e20-41e7f4b1d025 Doug Gwyn: >I don't see any necessary conflict between individualism >and respect for others. Indeed, respect for oneself seems >to be a prerequisite to authentic respect for others Oh, very sorry, I was unclear. I know the trick of respecting others works pretty much every where; my mother is implementing it in Ontario after all, and my father has done so all over the world. It is the minor trick of starting meetings that you arrive late at by apologising to everybody for wasting their valuable time which I am not sure translates to all cultures. I could be wrong, but I think that if I tried that in the USA I would run a strong risk of being laughed at, which is not the effect you want if you are trying this. Laura