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From: Alexander Keller <contact@nycroth.com>
To: Fans of the OS Plan 9 from Bell Labs <9fans@9fans.net>
Subject: Re: [9fans] plan9port : complete system : kernel : freebsd || linux	?
Date: Thu,  4 Oct 2018 13:36:15 -0700	[thread overview]
Message-ID: <D15241BB-1046-4B3B-9E1F-2411ADBCD843@nycroth.com> (raw)
In-Reply-To: <CAJSxfmLh2-2kud1O-qOqQHOPHgXF8zwZsyUfiqP=uSDhNTgjGQ@mail.gmail.com>

Don't worry, these arguments happen, have happened, and will continue. Ham radio for example has the saying, "The only thing two hams can agree on is the third is a fool." The only difference is that text divorces empathy from the discussion.

Best way to help, if you don't think someone's idea has some potential, ignore it. Trying to explain why you think it won't work or worse, shouldn't be done, only makes a person feel prosecuted. Text comes off devoid of compassion and often makes the contributor feel attacked. Even in person, it's hard to pull off kind rejection.

Often, people given no support in an effort will grow to understand there is no desire for it and give up. If they do end up persevering, power to them! Maybe they're right and you don't see it. People will band around things they believe in.



  parent reply	other threads:[~2018-10-04 20:36 UTC|newest]

Thread overview: 40+ messages / expand[flat|nested]  mbox.gz  Atom feed  top
2018-10-04  3:49 sl
2018-10-04  5:13 ` Mayuresh Kathe
2018-10-04  5:32   ` Iruatã Souza
2018-10-04  7:38 ` Aram Hăvărneanu
2018-10-04  7:50   ` Rui Carmo
2018-10-04  8:39     ` Ethan Gardener
2018-10-04  8:50     ` Kurt H Maier
2018-10-04 10:33       ` Rui Carmo
2018-10-04 16:31         ` Iruatã Souza
2018-10-04 17:00           ` hiro
2018-10-04 18:02             ` Steve Simon
2018-10-04 18:34               ` Aram Hăvărneanu
2018-10-04 19:21               ` Steven Stallion
2018-10-04 19:41                 ` Skip Tavakkolian
2018-10-04 20:20                   ` hiro
2018-10-04 20:57                     ` Steven Stallion
2018-10-04 20:36                   ` Alexander Keller [this message]
2018-10-04 21:00                     ` hiro
2018-10-04 20:55                 ` Aram Hăvărneanu
2018-10-04 17:42         ` Kurt H Maier
  -- strict thread matches above, loose matches on Subject: below --
2018-10-04 21:56 sl
2018-10-02 11:30 Mayuresh Kathe
2018-10-02 12:01 ` Lucio De Re
2018-10-02 12:11   ` Mayuresh Kathe
2018-10-02 12:43     ` Lucio De Re
2018-10-02 14:26       ` Mayuresh Kathe
2018-10-02 14:32 ` Roderick
2018-10-02 14:43   ` hiro
2018-10-02 14:40     ` Roderick
2018-10-02 16:35   ` Iruatã Souza
2018-10-02 14:41 ` Dave MacFarlane
2018-10-02 17:14   ` Ethan Gardener
2018-10-02 17:22   ` Bakul Shah
2018-10-02 17:26     ` Steve Simon
2018-10-02 18:10       ` hiro
2018-10-02 19:18         ` Kurt H Maier
2018-10-03 21:23 ` Aram Hăvărneanu
2018-10-04  3:44   ` Mayuresh Kathe
2018-10-04  8:01     ` Ethan Gardener
2018-10-05  1:44     ` Bakul Shah

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