(1) For specifics about Npp's settings xml files:

Where are Notepad++ settings saved?
http://notepad-plus.wiki.sourceforge.net/FAQ

(2) Remains... Making NppLW's console talk with the context minimal installation in /opt/context

In the meantime, you can edit your files with NppLW and compile through a terminal window.

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Best,
Alan

Ubuntu 8.04 Hardy Heron (Desktop)
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