anyhow, i'll add this:

    \setupuserpagenumber[viewerprefix=titlepage]
    \startstandardmakeup
        The first page
    \stopstandardmakeup
    \setupuserpagenumber[viewerprefix=p ]

Thanks Hans.  That works great.  Is it possible to have ONLY the prefix (not followed by the corresponding page number) with this implementation?  If not, is that a feature that can also be added?

Troy